This past weekend I had the privilege to volunteer at an event for DeSoto’s DVAC(Domestic Violence Advisory Commission). Let me first start off by saying I am not an expert but I think it is very important that I share what I learned from this event. I know that in society this is a very touchy subject but I do believe it is something we need to speak to our children about, no matter the age. We often wait for something to happen to then have a voice on it but there are so many things that can happen to our children that it is important to have these conversations with them beforehand. So what is the conversation we should have? What is it that I learned?

​Stress is something so common but often something people do not like to talk about. After all, why would we want others to know that we are stressed? We are superheroes and we can handle anything, right? Well, if we are being honest we all have experienced stress at one time or another.

​You know the saying, “Time flies?” Man is that true! For me it doesn’t seem that long ago I graduated from High School let alone College but it has been years. In this time there has been many things I’ve learned and I’ve decided to share 28 of those things since after all, I did complete year 28. In no specific order here are some of the things I’ve learned:

Being a mom I often battle with the idea I shouldn’t have “me" time. Having a full time job I would rather maximize my time with my son rather than spending time on myself. I love spending time with him and at times we are normally on the go so I try to take advantage of every second I have with him when so many others aren’t around. There is just something about that quality time that I just love. What I have realized is quality time for yourself is also very important. It may just be 10 minutes but that may just be what you need. Below I’ve listed 5 simple things you can do during “me” time.

​It’s the holiday season and if you are wanting to get into the holiday spirit what a better way than to go check out some holiday lights.

​Have you ever wondered what are the best items to pack in your toddlers bag or backpack? I know as a first time mom I would pack pretty much every single thing I could think of. I honestly looked like I was going on a trip with my son’s bag. Haha! I have now figured out what the best items are to take with me without looking like I have packed too much. Below are a list of items I pack in my son’s small backpack.

​So you aren’t an extreme couponer? Unfortunately, neither am I. I’ve tried several times but I just couldn’t get the hang of it. But one thing I do know there is always a way to save. I’ve found two ways that are easy, free, and did I mention free? Is it just me or does everyone like when something is free? Okay not all things but let me tell you these I think you will like.